Keeping the lights off: A simple tip for apartment safety

Today, it's easy for others to locate our home address, especially if we're active on social media. For those living in an apartment block, it's particularly difficult to pinpoint the exact unit unless it lights up immediately after someone enters, inadvertently revealing its location. A TikToker shared her story, cautioning women worldwide against turning on the lights immediately after entering their homes. Your safety could be at risk!

If not for one unexpected event, most would never consider that turning on the light at home could pose a danger. Mary Alice, a popular TikToker managing the account @heyitsmaryalice, recounted her experience, which has garnered 20 million views. The incident she described significantly impacted her sense of safety.

One day, after returning home, Mary noticed a stranger near her apartment block. The man attempted to start a conversation with her, but Mary felt uneasy. Although the man tried to draw her attention to an issue with a spotlight, Mary proceeded straight to the stairwell. Once inside her apartment, she felt it was best not to turn on the lights. Checking the intercom camera, she saw that the man was still standing beneath the block, looking upwards, possibly waiting to see which window would light up. This could have revealed Mary's location.

This type of situation could happen to anyone. Even the simple act of turning on a light can signal an assailant lurking nearby. Prioritize your safety - avoid turning on the lights immediately upon entering your apartment. Waiting a few minutes might just protect you from harm!

Our bodies often react faster than we can process things logically. Safety should always come first. If you ever feel afraid, there's typically a reason for it. Women travelling alone in the city should remain particularly vigilant.

If you sense someone has been following you for an extended period, consider purchasing pepper spray and an alarm. When returning home in the evening, avoid using headphones and staring at your phone - this may present an opportunity for an attacker. Stay alert and avoid interactions with strangers; it could save your day. If someone inquires what you're doing in the area, saying you're meeting someone might deter a potential threat.

The light in your home is one of several safety tools available. If you encounter a stranger in the elevator, don't get in. Maintaining safety in confined spaces is difficult, and an attacker could stop the elevator to cause harm. Likewise, refrain from conversing with strangers in hallways to avoid revealing your residence. Your safety is the top priority.